lesson to learn

people should be respected and trusted as people, not because of their position or title. Frequently, position or title did not reflect the true merits of a person.

i agreed a lot.after all the things had happened to me,i just realize that respecting people's life is just as important as respecting our own life.as we know,respect has great importance in everyday life.as children we are taught (one hopes) to respect our parents, teachers, and elders, school rules and traffic laws, family and cultural traditions, other people's feelings and rights, our country's flag and leaders, the truth and people's differing opinions. and we come to value respect for such things, when we're older, we learn how to respect the differences and also respect the common.we learn how to respect more people's feelings, more people's personal life,more about life and facts,and more about our self.as you know, my last post told you about something ruined friendship.the reason for the trouble was lack of respect. what my experience had taught me is that for a friendship to flourish, the people involved should respect each other.for example,i wont bother my friend's private life and i expected the same way from her/him. respect me like i respected her/him. the trouble started when the respect was not reciprocated.saying that 'im your bestfriend i should know everything about you' or 'this is the way i care about you,we're bestfriend right?' are really a bad ideas.

and i really felt sorry for what happened.having someone you can called as bestfriend sure a great feeling.so for me, the main ingredients of friendship or any kind of relation is mutual respect. without that, things wont work as we wished. now, i set my self free from desire to do the same thing as she/he does. i put an end and hurry save my self from further harm,set my pride aside and try my best to see the situation from the other person's perspective.if i can keep this in mind,i will be well on my way to practicing forgiveness instead of trying to balance the scales. how cool is that?

well,have a wonderful friendship everyone.i promised my self not to talk about it again.i have a very perfect life,superduper cool mom,funny friends,lovely boyfriend,and more than enough money.i am free to do what ever i want to do and say,free to go wherever i want to go.i couldn't ask for more,so dont worry i wont look into yours.i swear by God.

ps: im about to deleting my older post.so lets just pretend that 'who ever it is' never exist. no body wants to live in the past,will you?
sorry for the bad english and no hard feeling for everyone.

happy weekend and happy welcoming holiday.