Friday, August 20, 2010

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

..he was a thousand miles away from me when i needed him, we cant solve our problems face to face because he just not here, god knows how tired i am with this long distance relationship stuff, i think we need a break..


sad.

as someone who used to be in a position like that, i can say it was sad and desperate. long distance relationship is all about distance and time. as we know, distance and time are a must. we cant fool the distance. because until now "pintu kemana saja" doesnt exist and never will exist. distance must be passed. whatever it takes. and time. time is moving forward, never stopped or even walk backward. so everything had to walk across the distance and just in time, because your hearts, once it was late, it'll change.

but for me long distance relationship was more than distance and time.

many of my friends whose relationship ended due to distance reasons. although nobody said that distance can guarantee a lasting relationship, i agreed about distance as reasons. but, the distance im talking about is different, distance doesnt always mean different cities, different countries, or any kind of different places to stay. distance is blank space between two things/person.

can you imagine there was a blank space in front of you? a blank space that makes your eyes go blind and your hearing becomes deaf? and all you can see is your head and all you can hear is your thought? i say: dead.

for me, a relationship cant be said as LDR just because you live in different cities, but if you live in one house together, but rarely of communication and no time to spend together, it can be said as LDR. doesntt matter near or far you are, as long as there is no blank space between you, then you are actually holding onto one another.this is what we always have to protect, because blank space is very easy to appear. dont give a damn about how thin it is, it still dangerous. and all you have to do is put your glasses back so you can see clearer and start to look for something to make the blank space go away.

so before you say: "i think we need a break.." please look around you. what actually when wrong? if you going frustrated because you want to hug him/her but you cant, its not even a problem, its love. but if you see something that he/she couldnt see, i hope you know the best thing to do to get rid of it besides leave it die.

PS: leaving is not the best way to solve problems

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